So he asked Pharaoh’s officers who were in custody with him in his master’s house, “Why are your faces sad today?”(Genesis 40:7 HCSB)
We may learn from Joseph the true method of bearing grief. Joseph might have become moody and sullen, absorbed in his own misfortunes, and pessimistic about the course of human life. How far removed from all this was his behaviour!
He filled his time with ministry – The captain of the guard charged him with two state-prisoners, and he ministered unto them. A new interest came into his life, and he almost forgot the heavy pressure of his own troubles amid the interest of listening to the tales of those who were more unfortunate than himself.
Do not nurse your grief in lonely brooding: arise and minister to someone; do something in the world; exert yourself to alleviate the sufferings of those close by your side, who have not so clear a conscience or so bright a trust in God.
He was quick to sympathize and comfort – Quick to notice traces of sorrow, because he had sorrowed; able to sympathize, because he had wept; adept at comforting, because he had been comforted of God. We gain comfort when we attempt to comfort.
Out of such intercourse, we get what Joseph got – the key which will unlock the heavy doors by which we have been shut in. Light a fire in another’s heart, and your own heart will be warmed.
He kept his faith in God – Depression, captivity, loneliness, separation from those he loved, could not quench his faith in God. Still, God was near and precious to him. The stifling darkness and oppression of the prison were irksome to the free child of the camp, but God was as near as in Jacob’s tent.
There is no evil to them that love God, and the believer loses sight of second causes in the contemplation of the unfolding of the mystery of his Father’s will.–F.B. Meyer